Introducing: A Kinkier GFE

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A year ago, I entered this wanton and wonderful world with a few intentions, one of which was to expand my sexuality, and to explore the many intricate layers of human pleasure. 

So with trepidation and curiosity, I applied for my SWA (a legal requirement in Victoria), and received it on June 2nd, International Whore’s Day, a somewhat poetic result.

I created a new name for myself, organised a photoshoot in a tiny hotel room, and then started to envisage the Amber King experience. ‘What makes time with me memorable?’, I’d ask myself, counting my compassion, brains and emotional intelligence as virtues. ‘I’ll be the ultimate GFE provider,’ I decided, emphasising emotional connection, romance, and traditional dating experience.

But in doing so, I was inadvertently placing GFE in a hierarchy. That part of me partially ashamed of my sexuality saw that an emphasis on connection and conversation would somehow nullify the physical aspects of my job. I'd created my very own totem pole of stigma, relegating less intellectual affairs to the bottom of my priorities and my interests.

Was I…slightly whorephobic? In a word, yes. I was far more secretive back then, swearing to never, ever tell anyone about my clandestine little life, with firm boundaries around times when I’d answer my phone (never at work, and never when out with friends. Rules which have clearly gone out the window, as I eagerly reply to enquiries).

 

What changed?

Retrospect gives you much clarity. Like the first months of any new venture, you make mistakes, veer off your original plan, iterate, and refine from a place of informed experience. You get smarter.

Over time, I came to value a short and swift affair, and my ability to create an erotic connection quickly. Whereas I used to favour a personal introduction and intellectual sparring before playtime, I now savour those experiences that focus on the physical. I place my thoughts aside for a moment, and fully step in to my body, completely present to what my lover and I are experiencing.

It's during these moments where our mutual reverence for literature, or our clashing taste in cuisine doesn't matter. Not an inch. All that counts during these affairs is our respect, our pleasure, and our willingness to explore.

That's not to say I don't savour an in-depth conversation, or an intellectual debate. I will always relish the opportunity to savour find food, wine and a kindred spirit who seeks to stimulate my mind. But now I've opened my world – and our time together – with something more carnal, more exploratory, and more exciting for those just seeking a good fuck.

 

Kinky GFE

After spending the past year soaking in the knowledge of expert minds via workshops, books and conversations, I’ve expanded my repertoire beyond a Sweet GFE. 

I'm wont to announce a Porn Star Experience, as this acronym comes with particular connotations (anal sex, mostly).

So instead, I’m excited to announce a new way to spend time with me: The Kinky GFE.

The Sweet GFE will always remain. I still provide an intimate sleep over experience, and will jump at the chance to discuss Stoic philosophy with those who share similar interests.

 

Experience it for yourself

Are you craving a particularly dirty experience?

Do you want to get out of your head, and step into your body?

Are you seeking a particular fantasy, involving role play and other adventurous delights?

If you’re curious to discover what’s included in my Kinky GFE, please visit my Sydney profile on Private Girls - https://www.privategirls.com.au/amber_king_syd.php

For prices and other indulgent dates, please view this page.

 


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